L.O.V.E
Mummy once told me that a women should record down when men promised to stay faithful and love and take care of you forever and let them listen to it occassionally... Coz they are the forgetful one....
I laughed at that.. i thought if men were to "forget" it... no matter how often u remind them.. they'll still forget...
Today.. i've concluded my decision that men are forgetful....
Men are always busy (as though we gals got have got nothing better to do like tt)
Give them the space... but sometimes u wonder how come despite them being so busy.. they've got time for soccer n games or hang out with their friends...
Quality time with their loved ones doesn't not mean much to them
With or without it doesn't make any difference...
But do u guys know all we gals need is just some quality time to know tt we are still in ur heart... just a tiny reassurance... is it that difficult? Take a second off your precious time and send us an sms to ask if we had our meal... is it that difficult? Is the only topic work??
U had a hard time in work... fine... u can always talk to us abt it...(we'll be very glad to do so!)
Y vent ur frustrations on us?! We also have our own prob... did tt thought ever occur to u?
If you guys can be so nonchalent abt spending quality time with us... then y bother to let us in ur life in the first place?
Busy.... busy... busy.... all u can remember is ur work... when was the last time u had a good look at her? held her in your arms and look lovingly into her eyes? experience fear that she might one day leave u? perhaps after being together for a long period you feel that she would never leave...
Well guys... just let me tell you... drive her into the wall and she's HIGHLY capable of that! Don't come crying to me that u regret it... coz you are the one who made her do that! Don't think you can always find another girl coz you can never find another girl like her ever again!Please don't take her for granted!!!
You think she's stupid? yeah let me tell u.. she's stupid that's y she's with u!!!!!
We girls prefer to solve a issue instead of avoiding them like what u guys do! We'll wanna talk to you and resolve it... and not that we wanna keep harping on the issue after u've apologize... coz tt wun solve the problem... the same issue will keep reappearing... and the cycle continues...
And stop arghing and distort the picture such that it sounds like the fault lies in us... Do some self reflection and stop harping on ur ego!
I always thought that one should treasure fate... treasure the chance to meet your loved one... but apparently not many people treasure it... tt's just simple discouraging...
I need faith... i need someone to tell me that true love does exist... love CAN last for a lifetime...
She showed me that there is true love... taught me that it's about 2 people working together to make things work......
But now.. she also showed me the other side.... n fear is creeping back... the past is haunting again
She told me that there's no point dating for a long period of time.... IF he only treated u okay during courtship.... dun expect anything better from him after marriage...
Ya i supposed to many guys... after marriage means that there's no more effort needed to put into the relationship...
I need someone to show me that IT can be done.... people around me seems to show me the otherwise........
how can i hold onto that believe?
Perhaps handphone doesn't connect people.... it further enhances the distance between hps... no hp implies girls will not expect their loved ones to call or sms them. no handphone means no dissapointment when u check your handphone and saw NOTHING from your loved one for the ENTIRE day.... no handphone means no anxiety when u cannot reach him on his hp(esp if he has 2)... worrying what has happened to him...
Why bother to land yourself into such state? What does love really mean? What does marriage mean?
I thought it's hard to find someone you love. Now i realised it's even harder to maintain the relationship....
In comparison... it's seems easier to find someone to just accompany you for a period of time.. when the sparks no longer exist, you'll just have to change another partner...
It's not worth sacrificing friends over love... Always treasure your friends and family. They are the only ones who will always by ur side no matter what happens to you.... No point putting men as ur priority.....
I laughed at that.. i thought if men were to "forget" it... no matter how often u remind them.. they'll still forget...
Today.. i've concluded my decision that men are forgetful....
Men are always busy (as though we gals got have got nothing better to do like tt)
Give them the space... but sometimes u wonder how come despite them being so busy.. they've got time for soccer n games or hang out with their friends...
Quality time with their loved ones doesn't not mean much to them
With or without it doesn't make any difference...
But do u guys know all we gals need is just some quality time to know tt we are still in ur heart... just a tiny reassurance... is it that difficult? Take a second off your precious time and send us an sms to ask if we had our meal... is it that difficult? Is the only topic work??
U had a hard time in work... fine... u can always talk to us abt it...(we'll be very glad to do so!)
Y vent ur frustrations on us?! We also have our own prob... did tt thought ever occur to u?
If you guys can be so nonchalent abt spending quality time with us... then y bother to let us in ur life in the first place?
Busy.... busy... busy.... all u can remember is ur work... when was the last time u had a good look at her? held her in your arms and look lovingly into her eyes? experience fear that she might one day leave u? perhaps after being together for a long period you feel that she would never leave...
Well guys... just let me tell you... drive her into the wall and she's HIGHLY capable of that! Don't come crying to me that u regret it... coz you are the one who made her do that! Don't think you can always find another girl coz you can never find another girl like her ever again!Please don't take her for granted!!!
You think she's stupid? yeah let me tell u.. she's stupid that's y she's with u!!!!!
We girls prefer to solve a issue instead of avoiding them like what u guys do! We'll wanna talk to you and resolve it... and not that we wanna keep harping on the issue after u've apologize... coz tt wun solve the problem... the same issue will keep reappearing... and the cycle continues...
And stop arghing and distort the picture such that it sounds like the fault lies in us... Do some self reflection and stop harping on ur ego!
I always thought that one should treasure fate... treasure the chance to meet your loved one... but apparently not many people treasure it... tt's just simple discouraging...
I need faith... i need someone to tell me that true love does exist... love CAN last for a lifetime...
She showed me that there is true love... taught me that it's about 2 people working together to make things work......
But now.. she also showed me the other side.... n fear is creeping back... the past is haunting again
She told me that there's no point dating for a long period of time.... IF he only treated u okay during courtship.... dun expect anything better from him after marriage...
Ya i supposed to many guys... after marriage means that there's no more effort needed to put into the relationship...
I need someone to show me that IT can be done.... people around me seems to show me the otherwise........
how can i hold onto that believe?
Perhaps handphone doesn't connect people.... it further enhances the distance between hps... no hp implies girls will not expect their loved ones to call or sms them. no handphone means no dissapointment when u check your handphone and saw NOTHING from your loved one for the ENTIRE day.... no handphone means no anxiety when u cannot reach him on his hp(esp if he has 2)... worrying what has happened to him...
Why bother to land yourself into such state? What does love really mean? What does marriage mean?
I thought it's hard to find someone you love. Now i realised it's even harder to maintain the relationship....
In comparison... it's seems easier to find someone to just accompany you for a period of time.. when the sparks no longer exist, you'll just have to change another partner...
It's not worth sacrificing friends over love... Always treasure your friends and family. They are the only ones who will always by ur side no matter what happens to you.... No point putting men as ur priority.....
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