Had a discussion with ry on how many people just got stuck in the stereotype.. Less adventurous. Nothing bad abt it. Just that this formula doesn't work for us. Haha
Indeed cos work takes up a big bulk of our time so we gradually form our identity around our jobs and our income / earning power. Money is important, without it alot cannot be accomplished. However, that's not who we are! We need to find out what we need socially, mentally etc.
I'm very thankful that I get to encounter many different people in different stage of my life and very often provides me a different perspective that broadens my sights.
I'm not trying to be different or preach others. But I always believe in keeping an open mind. How do you know what u can excel in? You will have to try out before you know right? It seems like as we grow older, we lost the courage to try out new things and explore our own limits. Like I always believe, there are many possibilities out there, it's just whether we encounter/expose to them or not.
This is a reminder to myself, always have the courage to explore boundaries and always have time with own self to not lose sight of myself. Many assumed the role of wife and forget own self, assume role of mother and forget role of wife. When u grow old, you realize U r totally lost. I might be idealistic and everyone most probably say it's impossible. But I would still wanna try. :)
Just some thoughts.
